By Dr. Arshi Thakur
July 02, 2025
Body count" refers to the number of people someone has been sexually involved with. It's personal—and often misunderstood
From dating apps to real talk, body count is part of how people understand intimacy, values, and past experiences.
There’s no magic number. It varies by age, lifestyle, and culture. What's "normal" for one person may not be for another
Culture, age, religion, and peers shape how we view body count. It’s not just numbers—it’s about personal experience
Men are often praised for high body counts, while women face judgment. Thankfully, these outdated views are changing.
Discussing body count can build trust—but only if it’s done with respect, honesty, and without pressure or judgment.
Honest chats about body count can improve intimacy, promote sexual health, and support personal growth in relationships.
Talking about body count can trigger insecurities, comparisons, or judgment. Approach the topic with care and empathy.
Be kind, stay open, respect boundaries, and focus on emotional connection—not just numbers. Trust is what really counts.